Acknowledgments (page xxv)
The Teaching of Talking has been my brainchild since beginning Landmark
Education four years ago. At this life-changing program, I learned something
very important about the purpose of human life: it is not all about me! In fact,
the opposite is true: life, when properly lived, is about making a contribution
to humanity and making a difference. So I first thank my friends at Landmark
Education.
Some years ago, I had the opportunity to work with four patients who had
profound expressive aphasia of the Broca’s-type. We were together five days a
week, eight hours per day. I knew intuitively and professionally that speech
and language should be stimulated in conversation within activities of daily
living (ADLs), in single words, phrases, and sentences. To assist me with these
patients, I trained a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) with a high school
education and found that she could learn to stimulate speech and language with
profoundly aphasic people as competently as any speech-language pathologist
I had ever met.

I awoke this morning with you on my mind; specifically the review that we discussed
In the last few visits. You have conveyed to me some of your experiences with the Teaching
of Talking Method.  You conveyed how you started out doing conventional therapy and how
that was for you.  You indicated to me an excitement when I invited you into the “Teaching of
Talking World” of mine with patients and saw what was possible; a new way of doing therapy
that required essentially no homework sheets, etc, but a style of inquiry and answer; question
and answer.  A way to stimulate thought, which then triggers language.  Interesting questions
that stimulate language.  And then making sure that the questions that are posed elicit the number
of words and complexity of language the client is capable of.  How cool is that?

What I wish for you to review is how TOT and your mentorship experience with me has impacted
the way you do therapy and the results you have been getting (with examples)

Would you also go through the book and really write about it in a few paragraphs.  What makes this
book different from the standard textbooks you had in the past.  How is the readability and the style?
What can you tell about the author of this book as compared to the authors who write speech pathology
books.  What are the distinctions made by this author and how is he different from the others?  

Is this a book you would recommend to your clients and friends?  If so, why?  What would  
happen if a caregiver you were working with in therapy showed interest in doing whatever it took
to help his or her loved one?  What would you tell them about the book, and why would you tell them
about it. What do you think would be possible if he or she were to pick up the book and study it for the
methods therein contained?  And then applied them? How about fellow colleagues or friends from
school who were working with children and adults with severe speech and language difficulties?

What do you think of the approach within The Teaching of Talking?  The chapter on Modeling and the
factors that are necessary to be a good speech model.  What do you think of the screening test that will
show the reader what a speech pathologist evaluates, and how the author helps the reader figure out if
The Teaching of Talking is the right approach for them?  What do you think of the style of instruction where
I give readers actual transcripts that are verbatim in order to help them learn the method.  And repeat them
over and over in order to get the method embedded into the mind of the reader.  What do you think of the conclusion
that not only reviews what was written in the book, but the personal viewpoints of simplicity, never making one
wrong or the philosophy of “re-stimulate” rather than making a value judgement or saying the “response was wrong?”
Or the suggestion of successive approximation?  Allowing the patient to answer in the best way that he or she can
and reinforcing that, with the thought that therapy is about a gradual movement towards improvement, and realizing
that with each and every opportunity to speak, the person with the communication difficulty (PCD)  should improve speaking
clarity and complexity of language?  What the approach is about is always ENCOURAGEMENT.  The ability to take what
the client/patient is capable of and accept and reinforce that for now, while always stimulating that response through the
model and modifying the model constantly to get the desired response from the client.  One of the essential ingredients of
The Teaching of Talking; the model and how the clinician is always modifying his or her model to get the target response
towards speaking clarity and normalcy.  By accepting what a client can do for now, and encouraging anything he can produce
the person with the speaking difficulty (PCD) has no stress or feeling of inadequacy since the clinician is constantly taking the response given and re-stimulating by changing the model of the question or the tell me phrase, until the responses are meeting the goal set by clinician (Speech Model SM) and person with the speaking difficulty (PCD).

What do you think of the stories I intersperse throughoutThe Teaching of Talking  in order to make a point?
Can you give some examples of what you found to be helpful for you?  
Is it the kind of book a speech pathologist or a caregiver could get value out of.  It’s readability or simplicity?
What do you think of this new style of doing therapy and the response patients are having when they have the
chance to talk about what is of interest to them, and what they value? (within the structure of language that they can tolerate?)

What I hope you can do dear Elisa, is put your heart into the writing of this review and really convey a message
to the audience.  Hopefully an audience who will see the value in a simple method, that is really the
one used by many parents, with children, as a child learns to talk; at home;  first simple words, word pairs, phrases
and sentences.  The child does not learn to speak with homework sheets, speech notebooks and the like.
The child learns to speak through an intimate relationship with a loved one who is always inquiring.  It is
a constant inquiry and answer, which in time gets expanded from simple answers to more complex ones, simply by the
parent or speech model who is constantly expanding and clarifying.  It is very much like the fundamental principles of
The Teaching of Talking.  

Finally how has this book impacted you as a clinician; Can you share that with others and let them know how you
think it will have a similar effect upon them as slp’s or caregivers.  How about our discussion of changing health care and the
caps that will certainly be a thing of the future.  How will that impact people with mild to profound speaking difficulties.  Can this
book have an impact for clinicians and caregivers alike who will only have a few visits to get someone started in therapy.  That
in the future, skilled, ongoing care will be a thing of the past for most people with severe speaking difficulties.  And why this book
was written by the author, who saw the future of speech pathology services, and wanted to provide people with speaking difficulties and their loved ones a way back to speaking when their health care delivery system could not?  

Reviews are the lifeblood of whether a book makes it in the marketplace or not  I hope you will write a review that
comes from your heart and soul and conveys who YOU are and what is possible within the walls of the therapy room,
and the improvement of speaking for others with this method.

I send my very best to you, as always.  Your review could have a great influence on whether others would invest their time and effort on this new approach to the improvement in talking!

Mark

Mark A. Ittleman, M.S., CCC/SLP
The Speech Therapist who can make a rock talk!
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Mark A. Ittleman, M.S., CCC/SLP The speech pathologist who can make a rock talk! New Blog: June 7, 2012

June 2012

Finding the Golden Nugget

It is a real treat to know an expert. An expert quite often is someone who has a totally committed mind to an endeavor and somehow, along the way develops an uncanny sense of knowing what to do to accomplish magical things in their field of endeavor. Commitment and dedication are what helps develop that extra sense of knowing what to do to solve a problem or finding where to go for help.

You know the experts who are way out ahead of the pack in whatever area of discipline they are committed to. Some of the names of remarkable people who have developed this sense were Mozart, Beethoven, Edison, Ford, Lindbergh, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, and thousands of unsung heroes who have made unbelievable contributions to millions of people on the planet. These are the people who have developed a sixth sense.

In every discipline there is some mediocrity, lack of care and commitment. We all know when it is present but for some reason accept it because there does not seem to be any other choice. The thought here is that when you have a real problem, make sure you find the real experts. Often they can save you hours and hours of time and expense by being able to identify the problem and find a totally workable solution.

There are those who are not improving in terms of their speech or those not receiving any professional advice or care. They often feel abandoned, and after a while, give up on the idea of getting better. Please don’t let that happen
The true expert can often pinpoint the problem, and offer a solution that makes sense. The path then becomes clear. Often the solution is relatively simple and a caregiver can learn what to do to help their loved one.

Case in Point:
Steve was speaking with such a profound slur that it was extremely difficult to understand him. His caregivers were shown two simple ways to help get clarity in speaking and now a transformation is occurring. Since Steven wants to be able to speak and be understood, he and his caregivers apply the “I’ll Tell You About Me and You Tell Me About You Method” as well as the “Make Every Word Count Method.” He will not need long-term treatment, because two simple changes can be made and reinforced by his caregivers at home, and Steven can return to functional speech with clarity.
He is now able to express himself to others and that will continue to improve with every daily attention and commitment. By doing so the new speaking habit can become entrenched deeply into his brain so that it will eventually become automatic. In fact his sense of humor is emerging again and he is causing people to laugh; not at him, but with him. He’s actually a pretty funny guy and I love being around people with a sense of humor. That ability had been absent immediately following his stroke when he was unable to utter speech. It is now emerging now that he knows what must be done to achieve speech that others readily understand.

Speech therapy does not have to be sitting down and going over countless drills that seem like they have no direct influence on speaking. Often there are a few modifications that can be learned by a person who has difficulty speaking and can be reinforced by the caregiver at home. One or two simple changes can often contribute to a profound difference in speaking clarity.

This power is available to all of us, and it is obtained by total commitment. Total commitment that comes from never giving up and giving what is needed your complete and undivided attention. Find a true expert and move forward with your intention of  improved speaking and communication.

Respectfully yours,
Mark

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Hi There Mark,
You are my first post, I’m also not familiar with blogs, but I am willing to give it my all.
My family and friends are also visiting the blog and leaving lovely comment on my face book page.
I am off tomorrow to give out your newsletter to all my Diversional therapists in our town.
I’m armed and dangerous, spreading the good news about steve, great improvement in his talking now that you have come into our life.
WE are so very grateful and thrilled to receive your professional help from the other side of the world.
Steve and I are happy to receive other articles you would wish to put on our blog. Enjoy your break until our next talk.shalom mark.

My response back to Sharon:

I am so proud of Rhonda and Steven. He is learning a new method of pacing his speech which greatly enhances his speech intelligibility. Although he has to speak much slower, the sounds of speech are more accurate and the structures within the mouth that are responsible for articulation move better at slower speeds. Some things are better when done more slowly, one step at a time…like walking, and now, for some with dysarthria. Dysarthria is a speech term that simply means slurred speech. A cerebellar dysarthria sounds like some of the people you may have once known who used to drink too much. When they had too many, speech would get very slurred. Dysarthric speech is like that. Often we teach people with dysarthria how to compensate for the slow movement of the articulators. Therefore we alter the rate and make it slower, and teach them to assure they say each word, one at a time. What I call my “Make Every Word Count Method.”

I just love Rhonda and Steve and Sharon. Now that Steven is speaking with more clarity, he keeps me in constant laughter due to his great sense of humor which is emerging again.

People with speaking difficulties can improve with the right instruction and interaction.

Mark Ittleman, M.S., CCC/SLP
The speech pathologist who can make a rock talk!

http://www.teachingoftalking.com/

I look forward to hearing of your successes with your loved ones and clients.
Sincerely,

Mark

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In the last few months I have been befriending people from all over the world and sharing with them the methods of The Teaching of Talking, Learn to Do Expert Speech Therapy at Home with Children and Adults. I am posting what Diane posted on her site a few days ago. She is a powerful woman with great insight and drive, and such a advocate for her husband! I would encourage you to check out her site and enjoy her inspirational and “tell it like it is” candor. How refreshing it is to read her posts at www.pinkhouseonthecorner.blogspot.com

The Purpose of Speech Therapy
I think the hardest thing for me to deal with post-stroke is aphasia and Bob’s inability to speak. That’s saying a lot, since most of you know, I have quite a bit to deal with, in fact, you would not have wanted to be at The Pink House yesterday, when there was not one, not two, but three (count them) bowel movements and the last two were complete surprises: one all over the bed and the other landing smack dab into a pair of real underwear. GAA! I tell you, right now, there is a perfectly good pair of real underwear headed to the local landfill because I could just not deal with it. You’d think my gag reflex would be better by now, but alas, it is not. But I have digressed. I was talking about speech therapy.

Since those first post-stroke months, when Bob could not utter a word, only make sounds–sort of garbles and gurgles, I knew he was trying to speak. To get the words out. As a writer, the ability to communicate is far more important to me than, say, the ability to use the bathroom. And so, since those first days, it has been a long and constant struggle to find Bob’s speech, to unlock his words.

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For a long time, I’ve been searching for that magic key that would unlock those words. Pretty much I’ve been trying every type of therapy technique I could get my hands on. Certainly since the “professional” speech therapists have given up on Bob saying that his “prognosis was poor” or he was “functional” enough, I have been trying harder than ever to prove those saps wrong.

This morning, I woke to the sound of rain on the roof. And I thought, well, I won’t be taking the dog on a long walk in this weather, so I rolled over figuring I had bought myself a little nap time. When I heard Bob, from the next room, call to me:

“Hey? um, hey?”

That’s me he’s calling for. I am sometimes known around here as “Hey? um, hey?” But I figured I’d just ignore him, pretend to be sleeping and catch a few more winks. But then he said,

“Hey! The sun is up!”

I nearly bolted upright in bed, not because the sun was up and that meant I should have my butt out of bed by now, but because that was a very good, spontaneous sentence. And Bob’s main problem area now is saying anything spontaneous, i.e. those type of sentences which just express what’s on his mind.

I recently ordered a copy of the book “The Teaching of Talking” by Mark Ittleman, who is a speech pathologist. Though I haven’t even finished reading this book, the one thing I gleaned so far (though the author never really states it) is that the whole purpose of speech therapy is this: keep him talking. However you can, just keep him talking.

I think I’ve always known that. I know I’ve always done that. But now, it seems totally clear to me that all along this is the “magic key” I’ve been searching for and it’s been right in front of me, heck I’ve been doing it all along, and it’s really quite simple:

Just keep him talking.
And make it as easy and fun as possible.

One of the techniques to make it “easy” in Ittleman’s book is asking the “embedded question”. This is basically a question with the answer already embedded in it. For example, instead of asking, “What flavor pudding would you like tonight?”, I instead should ask, “Would you like chocolate or vanilla pudding?” That way the answer is already stated, the words are right there hanging in the air, and Bob doesn’t have to search his mind for the word “vanilla” because “vanilla” is floating in the air in front of him–he only has to grab onto it and say it.

Bob is very good at repeating things. He can and will repeat something exactly as I say it. Right down to the tone of my voice. And if I, trying to be funny, say something in a silly Chinese accent, he will repeat it back in the same silly Chinese accent. So using “embedded questions” has really helped Bob find the right words.

Another of Ittleman’s techniques is what the author calls the “Tell me” phrase. This is all about repeating, so Bob is also very good with this technique. The idea here is to get Bob to say more words than he usually does. Here’s an example:

Bob: “Up.” (which I already know means he wants to be boosted up in bed, but instead of just helping him boost up, I get him to say more words, like this:)

Me: “Do you need a boost?”

Bob: “Yes, boost.”

Me: “Tell me, I want a boost, please.”

Bob: “I want a boost.”

Me: “Please.”

Bob: “Please.”

I have been working on this technique with Bob daily now for awhile. You can pretty much do this type of thing all day long. I suppose I tend to overdo this, and I’m sure that somedays I am downright irritating to Bob, though I no longer have to give him the “tell me” phrase, I can just ask him for a sentence, as in this example from yesterday while I was giving Bob’s morning meds through the feeding tube:

Bob: “Up.”

Me: “Do you need a boost?”

Bob: “Yes, boost.”

Me: “Give me a sentence.”

Bob: “I want a boost, please.”

Me: “Good.”

Bob: “And, um…” points to his mouth and says “ow.”

Me: “You need some pain medication?”

Bob: “Medication.”

Me: “Tell me, I want a boost and some medication.”

Bob (rolls his eyes), “Oh, puh-leeease.”

OK, I tend to push it. But the nice thing about these techniques is I can sort of integrate it all through the day and not feel bad on those days we don’t have time to sit down for a proper hour of “speech therapy”. As we are now doing neck stretching exercises 3 times daily, and having regular OT visits, time is at a premium.

Recently, both my sister and Bob’s mother had an opportunity to speak on the phone with Bob and both said, afterward, that they thought his speech has definitely improved from the last time they spoke to him. Seems he’s had a bit of a breakthrough speech-wise.

Even though it’s raining here at the Pink House today and things have been mighty hard, as someone said this morning:

Hey! The sun is up!

PS: There are some other cool methods in The Teaching of Talking Learn to Do Expert Speech Therapy at Home with Children and Adults. You May Want to Review: Please see the Alternative Choice method and the “I’ll tell you about me, if you tell me about you.” I think that will also be fun with Bob!

I love your writing, and dedication to Bob and sharing your voice with the world!………Mark

Mark,
THANK YOU FOR GIVING US THE OPPORTUNITY OF HAVING “ONE-ON-ONE” SESSIONS WITH YOU THESE PAST SATURDAYS.

THANK YOU FOR BELIEVING IN US ENOUGH TO INVEST YOUR TIME, EFFORTS, AND EXPERTISE IN OUR JOURNEY TO RECOVERY.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT

THANK YOU FOR TEACHING US THAT, EVEN WITH LIMITATIONS AND CHALLENGES, WE CAN ENGAGE IN SIMPLE, MEANINGFUL, FUN, CONVERSATIONS.

THANK YOU TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE, FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO SHARE YOU WITH OTHERS IN ORDER TO CHANGE THEIR LIVES FOR THE BETTER.

THANK YOU FOR INSTILLING IN US A “CAN DO” ATTITUDE.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR LAUGHTER AND WINNING PERSONALITY.

THANK YOU FOR MAKING THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE.

THANK YOU FOR MAKING A LASTING IMPACT ON OUR LIVES.

WE WON’T EVER FORGET YOU!

WARM REGARDS,

FAIRY AND WILL